Love, Hate & Other Filters

Love, Hate & Other Filters

eBook - 2018
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Aug 08, 2020

This book does not accurately represent Muslims. Showing the struggles of an Indian girl was accurate to some extend but this book did a really bad job on the Muslim part. In the book, we see that Maya is not really connected with the Muslim part of her identity and even after the attack on her parents, she does get affected by it and contemplates the reason behind it. But in the end, we don't really see a change in her when it comes to embracing the Muslim part of her identity. I think this book would have been better if it only focus on the struggles of American Indians in America rather than American Muslim Indians. I would recommend Love in a Headscarf and Love from A to Z.

Feb 11, 2020

Love, Hate & Other Filters, a book by Samira Ahmed, is about American-born seventeen-year-old Maya Aziz and how she’s torn between her worlds. There’s one world where her parents expect her to be their good, proper Indian daughter: going to college and getting married to a Muslim boy her mom finds “suitable.” Her other world is about dreams: going to film school and living in New York City. When a horrific event happens, Maya must learn how to deal with the world and its hatred. I enjoyed reading this book. It was a nice, light read and had big, impactful plotlines. I didn’t see anything in the novel I would’ve changed. I would recommend this book with a rating of 5/5. @CreativityReader of the Teen Review Board of the Hamilton Public Library.

VaughanPLKim Apr 10, 2019

Maya and her family are the only Muslims in their small Illinois town. When a terrorist attack occurs in a nearby city, the initial suspect is a Muslim man with the same last name as Maya. She and her family soon become victims of hate crime. At the same time, Maya struggles to tell her parents that she wishes to attend film school in New York against their wishes and that the boy she's really in love with isn't the perfectly suitable Muslim boy her parents have chosen. Overall I enjoyed this book but at times it felt like two separate stories. I would have liked to see less focus on the romance and more on the racism Maya and her family faced and how it affected their already fragile family dynamic.

Feb 19, 2019

I really enjoyed this booked. I would compare it to The Sun is Also a Star.

Dec 16, 2018

I have to admit, the start of this book was a bit cliché and kind of boring. But when the plot gets going, this book is pretty addictive. The ending was kind of hard to read, because I wanted more. If the author makes a second book, though, I will read it.

LoganLib_Zoe Aug 05, 2018

The message behind the storyline was visible to see and understand. It really makes you see things in so many perspectives. The ending was crazy and it really makes you think, like this actually happens. Overall the ending was great

KateHillier Jul 23, 2018

This one surprised me a little bit even though the summary gives you a hint that things are going to get real pretty quickly. We start out following Maya as she struggles through fairly typical 'about to graduate high school' problems. She's secretly applied to another university, far from her traditional Indian parents, for film studies, and has a crush on seemingly unavailable guy at school while at the same time her parents are trying to find her a respectable boy for her to marry after university - which of course will be very nearby.

At first it's kind of a romance and then when a terrible event occurs and Maya has to face the ugly side of being Muslim in the US; it gets dark pretty quick. Even the end I did not see coming - the epilogue was a nice balm but dang.

The thing that really sort makes me a bit 'hmm' about the whole thing is just steep the turn was from fun romance/teen book into 'wow we're in it now' territory. Without the event happening it probably would have come to this less violently but I was having a lot of trouble reconciling how Maya and her parents were interacting with one another before everything went crazy. I'm sure others reading this may have something more meaningful to say on that subject and may identify more with what happens and the feelings and specific situations involved.

This is a good addition to diverse YA and is worth a peek if only for someone to talk it out with me because wow

SPPL_Teens Apr 18, 2018

This is an important addition to the diverse voices in YA literature. The voice belongs to Maya, an Indian-American Muslim high school senior. She lives in a largely white suburban community and, initially, Maya does not deal with the effects of abject discrimination in her her every day life. The beginning of the book instead shows Maya's struggle with breaking from her family traditions to pursue a more independent life - her family attempts to set her up with a Muslim man while she is actually interested in a white classmate, for example. Weaved into the coming-of- age narrative is the voice of a terrorist who is plotting an attack on a location near Maya's hometown. The attack brings to light the fears of those around her and it is this fear and hatred that darkens Maya's otherwise normal life of falling in love, navigating friendship, and applying for college. This book is definitely worth reading, however I wished that the events seemed more authentic and not quite so "plucked from the headlines", while Maya's story contain more depth and perhaps even more grittiness.

DCLadults Apr 05, 2018

The story was okay but rather superficial. Her troubles revolve mainly around such things as which expensive college she gets to go to and whether a particular boy will like her. Still, there is some meaningful parts about racial profiling and how first generation Muslims are effected by fear of terrorist threats in America.

RDPL_Teens Mar 24, 2018

Join Maya as she falls in love, deals with the fall out of Islamophobia and learns to advocate for her dreams despite the more traditional expectations of her Muslim-immigrant parents. Excellent read, entertaining and thought-provoking. A YA title which I believe should be required reading for all highschools.

This is Maya’s story, a girl who is expected to be the good Indian girl, marry the person of her parents’ choice and attend the college which her parents want her to. Yet she wants to pursue her dreams and marry the person she wants to. She wants to be independent- she wants to keep her roots, but do something different as well. But her parents are old school and it isn’t going to be easy for Maya to convince them to open their mind a little. I like the honest narration of this book; the author doesn’t try to sugarcoat any of the difficulties minorities face in a foreign country. Something that could have been changed is that it is going to be a bit hard for someone who is not a minority to connect with this book. Minorities have faced these difficulties so they know how it feels, but for someone who hasn’t, it will be hard to imagine this. The mood of the book isn’t all serious or emotional, it has its fun parts. There is not foreshadowing as the reader doesn’t know until the end what happens. With all the hate crime and racism going on, it’s really important for the world to have a Muslim point of view. Not everyone that belongs to the same group can be described as being good or evil. Not every Muslim is a terrorist, there are some good people in that religion. They all may share the same religion, but their views, values, and beliefs are different. We cannot put someone in a certain category just because of their religion. This book really helps us understand that. I would highly recommend this book for everyone as it really gives us the perspective the world desperately needs right now!
- Manraaj Kaur Grewal


Love Hate and Other Filters is a coming-of-age story about a teenager named Maya Aziz who is an aspiring filmmaker, but is struggling to accept the expectations her parents are placing on her, like going to a local college and finding a suitable love interest.

One thing that I enjoyed about this book was the Muslim representation in this story. YA books are not always written with diverse characters, so I’m glad that we are starting to get more representation of various cultures and communities. This book also discusses an issue that is prevalent in our society today: Islamophobia. Islamophobia and other issues are not always talked about in the YA/teen genre, so I admire that this book didn’t shy away from tackling a difficult and important topic that teens should be exposed to.

At times, I was irritated by Maya, as she was somewhat portrayed as the typical “angsty teenager,” sneaking out of her house and running away from home. I also think this book focused way too much on the romance aspect instead of the main character facing the actual problems within the story. The love triangle and instant love clichés overshadowed what the book was really about.

Overall, I thought there were both pros and cons to this book, but most of all I enjoyed how the relevancy of this story pertains to our world while also teaching a valuable lesson of acceptance and the importance of being kind to one another.

- Shae-Lynn


KCLSRacheal Aug 31, 2017

So wonderful! The main character, Maya, is super likable; She's smart, driven, a little sarcastic, and a really believable balance between confident and insecure as she deals with first romances, negotiating her parents' expectations, and eventually some darker struggles with Islamophobia. The latter is handled well, and it's probably at least partially due to the fact that it's an #ownvoices book that's by and about an Indian American Muslim woman (but also because Samira Ahmed is just a really good writer). That being said, though, it's not all serious- it manages to balance the different aspects of the story really well from the the big events to the low-key everyday stuff to the frankly adorable romance.

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